This week’s post may seem redundant to many of you. Last time we talked directly to those of you still wondering if a particular guy wanted you. This week I’m going to follow up on that topic because that post received tremendous feedback. A lot of you even sent me videos that contradicted my central premise, that if you have have to wonder if a guy wants you, that means he doesn’t want you. I’ve read all your comments and looked at all your videos with the “exceptions” to my rule, so I’ve decided to revisit this topic. So here is the surefire way to know if a man likes you or not; you KNOW that he likes you. If you don’t know, then the chances are that he doesn’t like you.
I know this is the same point I made last week, but nothing I’ve seen or heard since then changes my mind. All the videos you sent like How To Tell if a Shy Guy Likes You, or 5 Signs That He’s Really Into You all really reinforce the concept I was trying to get across to you guys last week. If a man wants you, he will make sure you know.
It doesn’t matter what else is going on in his life, he will make it a priority to let you know that he wants you. It really is that simple. One thing that amazes me from talking to you guys over the past year is how complicated some of you guys try to make relationships. Healthy Black Relationships are not complicated, that’s not to say they are easy but the basics are simple. Boy and girl like each other and decide to start a relationship. Even in the year 2019 that’s how almost all healthy relationships begin.
So stop making this so complicated!!! If you have to ask me do I think a guy likes you the answer is no. Again, that doesn’t mean that he doesn’t want to sleep with you or may not take you out on a date, and if you are cool going that route that’s fine, but this site is focused on Healthy Black Relationships, and if a man sees you as someone he likes enough to explore a Healthy Black Relationship with, you will know. There are no exceptions.
I’m reposting a YouTube video from Scooter Magruder that a young lady who is taking my private class sent me. I thought it was pretty funny because I think it reinforces what I’m saying now and what I said a week ago. If a guy is doing all of the things he says in this video you should have no doubt that the guy likes you. I’m also adding my take, which again will be redundant but I thought it was necessary because of the feedback I received.
So that’s it for this week guys. I’ll talk to you next week. As always I ask you guys to share on your social media feeds. That’s how we get the word out. Also please leave me a comment to let me know your thoughts on the posts or the videos, or just to say hi. I really appreciate the feedback. Have a great weekend!!!