Here are top 10 things women hate when having a date:
- Refuse to pick anything
Women prefer a man to be authoritative, therefore, they expect you to pick the venue and plan the entire date. However, you should ask for suggestions but don’t leave everything to a woman to choose everything.
- Show up late
As a gentleman, you should show up before or on time rather than being late. This not only shows her how you value her and the date but also your seriousness.
- Looking outwardly unsatisfied
Even though everything is not going on as planned, you should not look outwardly unhappy or unsatisfied because you will turn the woman off. You should be happy and try making your date fun to yearn for more in future. Even if the lady is not what you expected or she has not dressed properly, don’t make a scene about it. You should be rather supportive.
- Staring at the waitress
You should never flirt or gape at the waitress when you are on a date because it shows you don’t respect her and value her. It is disrespectful and insulting.
- Complain about the prices
Instead of going to an expensive hotel and complain about the price, it is better to go to a cheap hotel. When you complain about prices, it shows you had not planned or you are not serious about the lady.
- Failing to pay the bill
If you would like to be respected by a woman, never invite her for a date and then fail to pay. A gentleman should always pay the bill unless the lady wants to chip in and contribute genuinely.
- Showing up with a buffer
A date is supposed to be you and the woman you already invited. If you are going to invite a friend, you should have prearranged to avoid surprises and making your date feel uncomfortable.
- Talk at her
Conversation plays a key role in creating a good first impression. Therefore, have a meaningful conversation to connect with the woman. Don’t talk alone or try to impress too much because it is not appealing.
You are in a date to have a good time, even if you will bring your phone, you should not use it to text or receive calls. This shows you are not valuing the time you have with the woman. In addition, don’t keep on checking your social media because it’s insulting to the woman.
- Try to have sex
On a first date, you should never try to have sex because it may seem like the sole reason you invited the lady for a date! If she likes you, you will have more dates and all the time to make love.
Therefore, if you would like to have a successful date, you should avoid these mistakes at all costs. Finally, try researching and knowing what might work on a date to avoid being out of place.